Coping with exam pressure
The pressure to do well can really get on top of you and only add to the existing stress of exams. It could be from your school, your family, your friends, or yourself. Even if the people around you aren’t putting pressure on you, you might still want to make them proud. But remember, no matter what your results, your mental health is important too.
Whether you feel stressed right before your exams, or it builds up over time, here are some things you can do to ease the pressure:
Be kind to yourself
Reflect on all the things you’ve already achieved, in or outside of studying. Write a list of what you rate about yourself, and what others like about you too. Doing things you’re good at and enjoy can really boost your self-esteem.
Talk about feeling under pressure
If people around you like your school or family are putting pressure on you, be real with them about what you think you can handle. Make it clear if your expectations are different from theirs. And if you need to, have a word with a teacher you trust about the stress you're under at home.
Don’t compare yourself to others
Try not to stress about how others are prepping for exams. Focus on what you can do. You might feel like other people are smashing it, revising more than you, or just not stressing out as much. But we're all different and that's okay. Remember, your friends are coping with exam stress too. They might be just as on edge as you.
Get organised the night before
Get everything ready for the exam the night before. You could talk to someone you trust to double-check you’ve got everything sorted. If you’re going somewhere for your exam, check when and where it’s happening. Plan your route and make sure you’ve got plenty of time to get there.
Try relaxation techniques
Avoid cramming in last-minute revision. This can be overwhelming and make you feel unprepared. You’ve put in the work, so focus on staying calm. Breathing exercises and grounding techniques can help dial down the stress before your exam.
Don’t compare your answers
Resist the urge to talk about the exam with your friends afterwards. This can make you feel more stressed. Try to let go of the exam talk now that it’s done.
Reward yourself
Once you’re done, have something good lined up after. It could be hanging out with friends or taking some time for yourself. It’s tough to switch off, especially if you have more exams coming up, but it’s important to let yourself recharge first.